MALE TO FEMALE SPANKING
( CLICK HERE for MEMBERS version )
" Maybe it's just me but I believe we're gonna have to get medieval on your buttocks . "
............ fortunecity.com
Male to female spanking is the most popular sex " mix " in spanking . It can be just a spanking , a prelude to sexual activity or used as discipline ( see SPENCER and SPANKOZ Plans ) . Spanking is an interesting extension of the " Battle of the Sexes " . The generally superior size and strength of men leads itself to this " mix " , it is a classical demonstration of power and of being in control .
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Newcomers to adult spanking sometimes have difficulty in understanding that the women being spanked often want to be spanked , even more than a man's wish to do it . This is not abuse , so long as informed consent has been given . The spankee is no less a person for being spanked .
How
to Give a Spanking : Advice from the Receiving End - Excerpt
Spanking should be another channel of communication between spanking partners . Generally , it should be fun for the participants .
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Relationships develop on an unconscious level . Looks are superficial . We're
attracted to people who mirror our internal world . "
" We're unconsciously attracted to people who remind
us of significant figures from our early lives , including father figures or
someone with talent - a huge aphrodisiac . "
......... Brett Kahr ( psychotherapist )
The old saying of " Nothing ventured , nothing gained . " also applies to spanking . There is nothing wrong with bringing the subject up , obliquely if you like ( " You should have your bottom smacked for that ! " etc . ) or more directly with a smack or two . ( See SPANKING PROSPECTING . ) Spanking is a great way to get passion into a relationship and varying the AMBIANCE of the occasion will keep it there .
" American Girl English Cane "
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( From SIT
SPANKING )
" FOR THE LOVE OF SPANKING "
( For the complete article , go to : Master The Art Of Erotic Spanking . )
Yes, spanking can be sexy, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked. Most men, too, find spanking a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on.
But sexual spanking is not the same as the punishment spanking we may have experienced as children.
For a woman, the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of being bent over her partner's lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a primary erotic zone), the feeling of a man's hand warming her buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come.
For a man, the arousing aspect of spanking is the feeling of control and power over his helpless lover, and the excitement of playing with her attractive bottom, turning it pink and putting her in the mood for some hot, passionate sex.
To master the art of erotic spanking, it is important to understand the following six principles:
The bottom is a prime erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation -- like in spanking -- to trigger them;
- The physiological process of
sexual arousal demands that before orgasm can occur, blood must be collected
and kept in the genitals and nearby areas. Spanking creates just such a
physiological response, as the stinging of the skin causes blood to collect
in the bottom (and simultaneously in the nearby genitals), thus
accomplishing "mechanically" what caresses and kisses do
psychologically;
- A properly done spanking, such as
over the knee or with a cushion or other support propping up the woman's
bottom, causes the bottom to squirm from the sting, simultaneously resulting
in her rubbing her clitoris on the supporting knee, pillow, etc.
- The feeling of
"surrender" or submission is an important part of a woman's sexual
response, as many women need to give up control and give themselves
"permission" to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such
feelings;
The last two spanking principles, and some specific tips to make it really hot
- However, a woman must feel safe before she can give up control and surrender. Therefore, you must first earn her trust before attempting the game of erotic spanking. You must equate the spanking with sexual pleasure, eschewing any anger, sado-masochistic impulses or desire to humiliate her.
- The tacit understanding, no matter what the role play, should be that spanking is a form of foreplay and that orgasm is the goal of both players. Therefore, the actual spanks should be mixed with caresses and gentle rubbing of her bottom and genitalia, and other foreplay if possible.
From : ASK MEN.COM
( This still is from a video clip in the MEMBERS
VERSION of this page . It is a good example of this type of spanking ,
needless to say the roles are reversed here . )
Some hints for the first time .
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The Over The Knee position is best to use .
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Do not have hard objects in your front pockets and don't squash her breasts against your thigh .
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Start over the clothing and work down .
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Do a little massage along the way .
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Keep talking and reassuring , words like " Great Bottom " go down well . Tell her that she took the spanking well and how much you enjoyed doing it etc . .
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Spank Democrats* harder than Republicans ( only joking ) .
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If she asked to be spanked , make sure to do the job properly . The most common complaint is " He didn't hit hard enough ! " .
* If Australian Democrats , pray for them first .
We try to keep sex out of the spanking equation for various reasons ( see FAQ Page ) . Likewise , the sex of the participants is not regarded as a major factor in our pages . Our visitors are interested in the following approximate " mixes " in spanking :
55 % Male / Female
30 % Female / Male
10 % Female / Female
5 % Male / Male
This ratio is replicated in our pages , where possible . ( Some things are difficult to come by , for example , Female / Male cartoons from the 1950 's . )
Many visitors are interested in more than one " mix " , e.g. " SWITCHES " who reverse roles .
Do you want to spank or be spanked ?
VIDEO CLIPS FROM : Girls Boarding School
VIDEO 1 ( MEMBERS ) VIDEO 2 VIDEO 3 ( MEMBERS )
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PLUS
A yesteryear clip of Gidget being spanked .
( CLICK HERE FOR MORE FROM THIS SERIES , FROM GBS PREVIEW 106 . NOTE : The use of a " leg lock " )
A PROVEN METHOD OF REQUESTING A SPANKING
Here is a chance for females to be spanked and still keep their spanking desires hidden .
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" Connecting through talking activates the pleasure centres in a girl’s brain . We’re not talking about a small amount of pleasure . This is huge . It’s a major dopamine and oxytocin rush , which is the biggest , fattest neurological reward you can get outside of an orgasm . "
" Research shows that the female brain naturally releases oxytocin after a 20-second hug . The embrace bonds the huggers and triggers the brain’s trust circuits . So Brizendine advises , don’t let a guy hug you unless you plan to trust him . "
" Thoughts about sex enter women’s brains once every couple of days … "
" Girls like to be spanked . " But do they ? Harold Pinter wishes he knew . ......................
A posting from : britishspanking.com
Hello ,
I've never posted here before, but I must admit to being more than a little
'spank curious'. I often fantasise about meeting up with a younger women (I'm
41 and single) putting her over my knee and spanking her bare bottom. Where
this urge came from I don't know, but I suspect its always been there in one
form or another, lacking only the opportunity, the time and the place.
The thing is ... I've never actually carried out my fantasy, thinking of it as
a dark secret. I did once mention it to a previous girlfriend, and she thought
about it for a while but told me, 'That's not my scene'. I certainly wouldn't
describe myself as 'dominant', and I'm not really interested in CP (though to
a certain extent I can understand it). My interest only revolves around the
lighter side of OTK play. Using implements doesn't really appeal to me either:
I'm very gentle by nature, which is again why I've never understood my (so far
very private) interest.
I suppose I'm looking for feedback and/or advice. I would like to try an OTK
session, but I have no idea where to begin. How do I begin? Later on I'll ask
myself, 'Do I even want to begin?' There must be 1,000s of people out there
just like me, but I'm not sure if spanking could - or should - form the basis
of a relationship.
What's really curious is that a friend of mine said - quite out of the blue -
'I think you're the dominant type! You want to whip someone?' I suddenly felt
naked: she was wrong, but not far off! How strange that something like that
should be apparent to just one person ... as far as I know. She also said,
'You're like a gay person who hasn't 'come out yet'. Right again: sometimes
your friends can see more than they let on.
Bye the way: thanks for producing this site. I've just left a vanilla dating
site where the people seemed a lot less articulate than some of the 'posters'
on here. Many thanks for reading.
..........
SPANKOZ
Spankoz
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