MY OLD MAN
The author of this book , Amy Sohn ,
also has a website and the following spanking advice comes from the FAQ / ADVICE Page of that site :
I remember in one of your "Ask Amy" columns one time, you gave someone advice regarding spanking as foreplay. I am very into this, but also with the role-play that can accompany it, i.e., "You've been a bad girl- tell Daddy what he has to do to you, etc." Any advice on how to get my girlfriend to engage in this and have you yourself done any spanking with role-play?
- Tushy Tom
My only advice would be to start gently and slowly and see where it leads. Hold her hands down behind her head. If she balks or walks you may need to try a new fetish. In terms of me, I have had good experiences with being spanked and with role-play but that may just be because I had an authoritarian parenting and I’m a failed actress.
I am glad to see you admit an interest in spanking. I think it is perhaps the most widely practiced taboo. I know so many people who are understanding of all kinds of sexual expressions who believe people into spanking need mental help. At the same time, they refuse to realize that those love taps on the rear are exciting; just so long as you don't call them "spanks". Personally, I have watched as women who swear they are interested in "spanking" achieve double satisfaction while receiving those "love taps". If this is not too personal, I would like to know your thoughts on spanking. When did you realize they could be enjoyable?
- Spank You Ma'am
I don't have a problem calling a spank a spank. I realized they could be enjoyable about five years ago when I was dating someone who liked to administer them. I won't name him here but he knows who he is.
What really turns a guy on?
- Clueless Cathy
Guys: want to help me answer this one? Let me know and I'll post the top five or ten. I personally think men love being able to push a woman down and have her squeal in fake resistance. Also they seem to like the underside of the penis and the head being stimulated orally for about half an hour.
......................... amysohn.com
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